When it comes to anal sex and vulva owners, there is a stigma. Let’s just name that right away. Why is there a stigma surrounding this incredibly fun form of sex and sexual expression? It’s almost as though society said, “If you have a vulva, you don’t need to explore…

For much of the last 100 years, sexual activity between queer people in the United States was a crime. In fact, most of us were alive when the police could still arrest people for engaging in “sodomy.” Sodomy is a broad term that refers to any sex other than vaginal…

What is prostate milking? Prostate milking is another term for giving someone a prostate massage. The prostate produces prostatic fluid, which, when combined with the sperm resulting from coming, creates a white liquid resembling milk (semen), which is where the name “prostate milking” comes from. The prostate is a small muscular gland that produces…

Science is at the core of everything Future Method does. We use it to examine our bedroom practices, educate people on how to minimize potential issues, and develop products and judgement-free support for all genders and butt types. That’s why a Butt + Body Soothing Cream was always part of…

As a physician whose patients engage regularly in butt play, I have seen many cases where a person’s ability to embrace versatility in the bedroom can often be paramount to a healthy and fulfilling life between the sheets. In fact, placing role limitations, like “top” or “bottom”, giver or receiver…

Sadly, preparing for bottoming is not on most high school health class curricula. Lacking that, we turn to “experts” like our more open-minded friends, adult stars, and Reddit. …

When we think about butt play, most of us were probably just winging it when we first started to explore this part of our body. No one really taught us the anatomy of our butts or the mechanics behind using them, whether for everyday bodily functions (like going to the…

What is rimming and why should I try it? Your bum is a highly erogenous zone with a plethora of nerve endings. Because the pelvic floor is connected to the D or V, prostate (for those with one), and A, all of these contract in unison when you climax. Are you familiar with how it feels to have the…

Have you tried backdoor fun? Earlier this year, we surveyed over 600 American straight women and gay men because we wanted to see how their butts compared. We found out that 56% of straight women engage in butt play less than once a year, while 25% do it at least…